Why am I on your friends list?
Then post this in your LJ to see what people say about you.
No point replying if it's something obvious, like through MSN or through meeting each other in RL first, but I am curious about those who have added me out of the blue.
As the_ladylark said, this also makes for a good excuse to de-friend me. I've never taken offence when this has happened, and (probably because of how the "friend" metaphor is overloaded here) also never thought that you have to add everyone who adds you. But that's LiveJournal's fault for making it both a list of "friends" and people you watch.